If you’re like me, one of your biggest cleaning hurdles is what you do when you are actually trying to clean. Once you have overcome your procrastination and hoarding tendencies, you still might be sabotaging your efforts to have a clean house.
Does this sound familiar? You have a visitor coming over at short notice, or you’re holding a birthday party for a child. You’re going to have company and you want your house to look its best. Things are looking okay, except for a couple of coats, some magazines, some mail, maybe some toys. Do you pick everything up (maybe in a laundry basket or a dishpan) and stash the bin somewhere until after the event? Here’s the important question: do you have more than one such bin from more than one such cleaning frenzy?
Obviously, the BEST thing to do is to keep the house tidy enough to where you never have to do a “Dash and Stash.” But let’s be honest here. We’re messies. Something is going to come along, maybe after you’ve been sick, or unmotivated, or after you’ve had a crisis that has kept you from being able to do that upkeep. Or maybe you’re still digging out from your clutter problem. Maybe your home is more than just a little messie. Sometimes, Dash and Stash seems to be the only option.
Two things will make a difference. Either get committed to cleaning out the Dash and Stash bin very quickly after such a cleaning frenzy, or figure out how to do an Emergency Clean Sweep without a Dash and Stash.
When you Dash and Stash, one of the most important things you can do is roughly categorize the items. Don’t stash dishes, clothes, books, toys, trash, and papers in the same box!
My advice would be to first dash around and grab all the dishes and trash. It will help to carry a dishpan and have a plastic grocery bag looped around your wrist while you do this step. Once you have all the visible trash and dishes, put the dishpan and trash-bag in an accessible place. You might still need them.
Now, grab a laundry basket (or another bag, if you must) and gather all the clothes. It’s likely there are socks in unlikely places, like in the couch or under the entertainment center. Don’t bother to move any furniture, just grab what you can see. Put the clothes wherever you keep laundry, the closer to the washer, the better.
Now, grab a bin, box, or tote and gather all the toys (if you live with kids.) Plop the bin in the owners’ room(s) and give the owners a deadline to clean it out (unless they’re babies.)
Grab all the books and put them on a shelf as neatly as you can.
NOW you’re ready to stash. Sort of. As you’re grabbing the magazines and papers that are left after the other rounds, cull all the obvious trash (empty envelopes, advertising fliers, magazine subscription cards, etc. Trust me, you’re not missing out on anything… new ads will flow in pretty quickly.) Put the rest of the papers and magazines in your bin.
If you really don’t have time to presort, then it’s extra important that you go through the box every day and don’t let it sit.
You can do Dash and Stash if you make sure the bin doesn’t stay full for very long after the cleaning. Set yourself a time limit. You could vow to clean out the bin within a day, or you could give yourself a full month. Whatever time works for you… the important thing is to work within your own limitations. After the event, you can set the bin in a prominent place so people can pick out their belongings and put them away in the right place. You can pick at it, pulling one thing out every time you go by and putting it in its proper place. Or you can add it to your daily list and devote 15 minutes or so to making sure everything gets put back in the right place.
If you were able to presort, then sorting through the box will be slightly easier. You can go through it with the 5 POP method (5 Pieces of Paper), which will be described in a future article on paperwork. Basically, you grab the top 5 pieces of paper in the bin and sort and file them. That’s it. Do it several times a day and you’ll eventually whittle it down.
A better option for most of us under most circumstances is to avoid doing the Dash and Stash in the first place, if at all possible. ONLY do Dash and Stash for emergencies. Don’t get into the habit of doing them on your regular cleaning schedule. You’ll just set yourself up to be overwhelmed later.







evie
April 26th, 2003 at 4:13 pmWhy do people because messy and hord alot of junk, you clean up one week and the next week the looks starts to look the same way. Can someone answer this question for me because I am a very messy person I dont mean to be and I am getting very tired of being this way.
betty
May 23rd, 2003 at 9:22 pmhi evie, there just might be a few answers to this timeless question. certainly you realize that unless you maintain EVERY DAY things are bound to get messy. another theory, which for me holds much truth, is that we hoard because we grew up poor and needed to save everything “just in case” we need it someday. and since i am again low income i have tamed these ways by TRUSTING that it’s okay to get rid of this clutter because my Higher Power will provide me with whatever i need in the future one way or another. for me, hanging on to all the “mess” is like saying that i don’t have faith in my Higher Power. since i realized this i have gotten rid of nearly ALL my excess clutter and am constantly going through and getting rid of more!
good luck to you in your quest for neatness!
Dawn
July 4th, 2004 at 1:07 pmIt’s been a slow process and a great learning tool, that as I finally declutter a space, it gets eaiser to pick up quickly. I have been working about 2 years on undoing a decade of clutter. As I clear a spot and find homes for possesions I take time either each day or several times a week to go over table tops and other surfaces putting back what was left out. The first step is always reducing what you have and don’t really need to own. Clutter attrats more clutter. Having a neat space encourages more neat spaces. After you do that and assign homes for what you own it becomes easier to make it a habit to clean up every day. (it will take time and can be done) Habits take time to develope and they only happen after you do them over and over.
Carolyn
October 24th, 2004 at 6:56 pmI am glad I discovered this website. I just have to start acting on my problem of clutter and keep a journal. Thanks for all the comments. I will read them daily for motivation.
Barbara
July 26th, 2005 at 3:21 pmI am an only childred so I have everything my mother had at her dealth. I have given my things away and replaced them with my mother’s things. There are a lot of this I could not face alone. My friend and I went into the room where I had stored her things. I decided if I wanted something or if I did not want it. I handed her the things I did not want. She decided Good Will, special person for things like sewing that I would never use, or trash. Everyweek we went into the room. Finally I could see the floor. My son came over and took all my papers to a temperary make area with a shreader. Everyday I go and shread papers for at list an hour. I have given thing with sentimental value to members of the family. The Christmas things I need to go through now. It was my mothers favorite event. I want most of it and use it for Christmas. I was thinking about just looking at one box a day I need a place to put the boxes I want, after I go through them.
Heidi
September 28th, 2007 at 9:55 amOh gosh. I know what you ladies are going through. I have so much clutter around my house and it’s driving me insane! Mail all over the place! I think thats the biggest issue. My problem is that i procrastinate. Even when i try to clean, something distracts my attention away. What can i do?
Ashley
December 20th, 2007 at 4:04 pmThis is a great article! I am (unfortunately) one of those who dashes and stashes! I have several piles and boxes in my spare bedroom that have not been looked through for ages! How embarrassing…. But this was such a good read for me. I needed the advice. Thanks!